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Fighting an image
Female athletes must face lesbian
stereotype in so-called masculine sports
Reprinted with permission from the
Daily Bruin, the student newspaper at UCLA
By
Adam de Jong
DAILY BRUIN CONTRIBUTOR
The day that Alaina Sudeith began playing water polo, the way her
peers perceived her changed.
Before the UCLA sophomore joined the water polo team at University
High School in Irvine, her classmates knew her as a tomboy.
Afterward, many wrongly assumed she was a lesbian.
"There's a double-standard for men and women in sports because men
are encouraged to be strong and competitive, but if a woman
expresses any interest in sports, she's labeled as butch," said
Sudeith, a member of UCLA's club women's water polo team. "There is
a homophobic backlash against straight female athletes, and I find
it to be pretty ridiculous."
Sudeith, like many female athletes, has felt pressure from men to
conform to traditional stereotypes and stop playing sports. It's a
predicament that some female athletes have encountered both at UCLA
and other schools, especially on teams like softball, basketball and
water polo, which are commonly associated with lesbians.
"There are two types of female student-athletes: those who are
lesbian but don't want anyone to know, and those who are straight
and feel like they have to prove they aren't homosexual," said Ronni
Sanlo, director of UCLA's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender
Center. "The perception is that they are all lesbian."
Since enrolling at UCLA and joining the club water polo team,
Sudeith said that the perception that she is a lesbian has become
more pronounced. Fellow students have told her that she will lose
her femininity, become too muscular, and no longer fulfill society's
concept of the ideal woman.
"I've been told from guys on campus that I shouldn't play sports
because everybody would think I was a lesbian, and no guys would be
interested in me," Sudeith said. "This was even from gay guys."
Such an unfavorable environment forces many straight female athletes
to try to prove their heterosexuality, University of Colorado at
Colorado Springs sociology Professor Jay Coakley said.
This phenomenon, dubbed by Coakley as the "female apologetic,"
refers to the explicit attempts of women to manage their appearance
so that they look more feminine and consequently more straight.
Coakley said straight female athletes will consciously put on
makeup, don a skirt and high heels and tie their hair in a ponytail
to fight the perception that they are lesbian.
"Historically, women's athletics has been stereotyped as an area for
lesbian women," said UCLA Associate Athletic Director Petrina Long,
who oversees life skills and spoke on behalf of the athletic
department. "That's a stereotype that has been problematic for all
women to deal with."
Sudeith said that she has not consciously changed her own lifestyle
to appear more feminine and neither have some of the other UCLA
female athletes interviewed for this article.
"Our team is going to bust our butts on the basketball court, not
dress a certain way to dispel perceptions," UCLA women's basketball
coach Kathy Olivier said. "That's what is sad about elite female
athletes. People will look at them and assume."
An easier way out
The perception that many female athletes in some sports are lesbian
has been advantageous in at least one way.
It appears to have made it easier for the female athletes who
actually are lesbian to come out.
While no current
male professional athlete in any of the four major sports is known
to be openly gay, a slew of high-profile lesbian female athletes
have revealed their sexual orientation. That list includes former
world No. 1 tennis player Amelie Mauresmo and the WNBA's Michelle
Van Gorp. Tennis legends Martina Navratilova and Billy Jean King
were among the first lesbian athletes to come out.
"For gay men, it's a little more risky (to come out)," said Pat
Griffin, an openly lesbian professor of social justice education at
the University of Massachusetts and the author of the book, "Strong
Women, Deep Closets: Lesbians and Homophobia in Sport."
"Part of that is that team sports is the last bastion of
heterosexuality and male masculinity. For lesbians, there are
different issues."
One lesbian athlete on a UCLA club sport agreed with Griffin,
indicating that she did not believe homophobia was nearly as
prevalent in women's sports as it is in men's athletics. Though she
herself has not told any of her teammates that she is a lesbian, she
said it is because she prefers to keep her sexual orientation a
private matter so it does not distract the team.
"Straight players are not taking their coaches or teammates aside
and telling them they are heterosexual," said the athlete, who spoke
on a condition of anonymity. "I honestly don't think there should be
a difference, and I want to be treated the same."
The athlete, echoing the sentiments of most UCLA female athletes who
were interviewed for this article, indicated that openly lesbian
athletes are not victimized by homophobia nearly as much as their
male counterparts. In fact, none of the lesbian athletes interviewed
said they were victims of homophobia – a far cry from the several
male athletes who already voiced their concerns.
"If I were to come out, it would not be a big deal, and I would most
likely be treated the same," the anonymous lesbian club-sport
athlete said.
"I am not really afraid of being ostracized by my teammates. I know
that girls (at UCLA) have come out to their teammates or coaches,
and it was nice for them to get it off their chests."
An open atmosphere
Lesbian athletes at other schools haven't always enjoyed the support
that they seem to receive at UCLA.
At the University of Florida in 2003, former softball player Andrea
Zimbardi was allegedly dropped from the team in her senior season
because she is a lesbian. More than one decade earlier, Penn State
women's basketball coach Rene Portland admitted to having a team
rule, banning all lesbians.
But at UCLA, lesbian athletes don't seem to have too many
complaints.
"Every girl I know that's a lesbian out on a team has had no
issues," said a straight female athlete at UCLA, who wished to
remain anonymous.
The athlete said she knew of a varsity team at UCLA with a
considerable number of lesbian members, most of whom have come out
and none of whom have experienced any problems. The explanation for
this, she said, is that women's teams are more tight-knit.
"For girls, we're a family," she said. "We make everyone a birthday
cake and take care of one-another when we're sick. Guys teams', it's
manifested a bit differently."
Since there is no specific policy related to homophobia at UCLA, the
best way to handle issues of sexual orientation is left up to the
coaches themselves.
Olivier said she will only intervene if her team comes to her with a
problem. UCLA softball coach Sue Enquist said she prefers to stay
out of her players' private lives.
"I've instilled a foundation of respect in my team, and I've told
everybody to understand the differences they have between each
other, whether it be sexual preference, religion or race," Enquist
said.
"Hypothetically, if I ever came across a case of homophobia, I'd
speak individually to both parties, figure out what the perceptions
were, try to come to an understanding, and direct them to the
appropriate resources."
With reports from Jeff
Eisenberg, Gilbert Quiñonez, Andrew Finley and Seth Fast Glass,
Bruin sports senior staff
April 14, 2005 |