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	<title>Comments on: Player stressed, so fans conclude he must be gay</title>
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		<title>By: blaine</title>
		<link>http://outsports.com/jocktalkblog/2009/06/23/player-stressed-so-fans-conclude-he-must-be-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-42039</link>
		<dc:creator>blaine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 23:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>maybe, in this age of NBA prima donnas and football players who should be playing tag football in a prison yard instead of on a gridiron, votto is that rarest of things: a guy who keeps his private life private. Wow, what a concept. A man does not have to parade his women around in public for the internet losers to be a man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>maybe, in this age of NBA prima donnas and football players who should be playing tag football in a prison yard instead of on a gridiron, votto is that rarest of things: a guy who keeps his private life private. Wow, what a concept. A man does not have to parade his women around in public for the internet losers to be a man.</p>
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		<title>By: Marvin</title>
		<link>http://outsports.com/jocktalkblog/2009/06/23/player-stressed-so-fans-conclude-he-must-be-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-41165</link>
		<dc:creator>Marvin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 13:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, anyone who seeks mental health treatment is gay?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, anyone who seeks mental health treatment is gay?</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
		<link>http://outsports.com/jocktalkblog/2009/06/23/player-stressed-so-fans-conclude-he-must-be-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-33764</link>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Nov 2010 22:32:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joey votto is NOT gay his father commited suicide and he was very depressed because of that</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joey votto is NOT gay his father commited suicide and he was very depressed because of that</p>
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		<title>By: whoah</title>
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		<dc:creator>whoah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Aug 2010 19:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The gay accusations were strictly speculation from the person who began that rumor.  What a speculation to put into a rumor mill.  I don&#039;t know anything about Votto&#039;s private life, but just imagine yourself being straight as an arrow and some bastard assumes you are gay (just because he thinks so) and passes it all around.  Result?
Rumors are like releasing feathers from a pillow.  You can&#039;t collect all of the feathers and them back into the pillow casing.  
Regardless, a falsely accused person carries suspicion the rest of his life.  
Loose lips sink ships.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The gay accusations were strictly speculation from the person who began that rumor.  What a speculation to put into a rumor mill.  I don&#8217;t know anything about Votto&#8217;s private life, but just imagine yourself being straight as an arrow and some bastard assumes you are gay (just because he thinks so) and passes it all around.  Result?<br />
Rumors are like releasing feathers from a pillow.  You can&#8217;t collect all of the feathers and them back into the pillow casing.<br />
Regardless, a falsely accused person carries suspicion the rest of his life.<br />
Loose lips sink ships.</p>
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		<title>By: KRE</title>
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		<dc:creator>KRE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 20:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dunno is he is gay.. but dams he is really cute :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dunno is he is gay.. but dams he is really cute <img src='http://outsports.com/jocktalkblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: TJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>TJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 15:36:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fellas, some people aren&#039;t ready to come out.  Why should they be forced or pressured to do so?  Like Atticus said &quot;you have to walk in a man&#039;s shoes to really understand him&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fellas, some people aren&#8217;t ready to come out.  Why should they be forced or pressured to do so?  Like Atticus said &#8220;you have to walk in a man&#8217;s shoes to really understand him&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: santana</title>
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		<dc:creator>santana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 06:13:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>didn&#039;t know there were gay rumors about joey. joey&#039;s one of my favorite players. he&#039;s a very good hitter. and he&#039;s hot too. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>didn&#8217;t know there were gay rumors about joey. joey&#8217;s one of my favorite players. he&#8217;s a very good hitter. and he&#8217;s hot too. <img src='http://outsports.com/jocktalkblog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: RK</title>
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		<dc:creator>RK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 02:09:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bigbluecowboy:

Whether Votto was Gay or not is not the point. If he is not then fine. But the comment was more general towards the state of closeted professional athletes or even entertainers. By hiding in the closet they tell the world they are ashamed of who they are. It is not acceptable to hide behind their career. By not being open they represent a form of homophobia which perpetuates stereotypes. Votto can be whatever and his mental illness is his to deal with. We as a community have to start holding closeted professionals such as athletes and entertainers accoutable for our lack of progress to defeat stereotypes, cliches, and derail equality for all of us.  We all go through the process and being out means you are proud of the guy you are and in the case of atheletes and entertainers it gives younger Gay men role models. Remember, for everyone person that comes out represents one more blow to homophobia. These closeted athletes need to do their part.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bigbluecowboy:</p>
<p>Whether Votto was Gay or not is not the point. If he is not then fine. But the comment was more general towards the state of closeted professional athletes or even entertainers. By hiding in the closet they tell the world they are ashamed of who they are. It is not acceptable to hide behind their career. By not being open they represent a form of homophobia which perpetuates stereotypes. Votto can be whatever and his mental illness is his to deal with. We as a community have to start holding closeted professionals such as athletes and entertainers accoutable for our lack of progress to defeat stereotypes, cliches, and derail equality for all of us.  We all go through the process and being out means you are proud of the guy you are and in the case of atheletes and entertainers it gives younger Gay men role models. Remember, for everyone person that comes out represents one more blow to homophobia. These closeted athletes need to do their part.</p>
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		<title>By: canmark</title>
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		<dc:creator>canmark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 01:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Exactly. I see no reason not to believe the death of his father led to depression and some kind of anxiety disorder. And why do we have to associate troubled people with being gay? It&#039;s unwarrented rumours like this that is probably forcing some other pro athlete deeper in the closet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Exactly. I see no reason not to believe the death of his father led to depression and some kind of anxiety disorder. And why do we have to associate troubled people with being gay? It&#8217;s unwarrented rumours like this that is probably forcing some other pro athlete deeper in the closet.</p>
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		<title>By: BigBlueCowboy</title>
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		<dc:creator>BigBlueCowboy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 17:41:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>RK:

What evidence is there that this man has internalized homophobia? The comments posted on other sites suggesting that Votto is closeted suggests that the posters are the ones who are homophobic.

Votto stated he is suffering from depression brought on by the death of his father. End of story. I congratulate him for discussing his illness. Mental health issues are still burdened with stigma. As a professional, playing athlete, he is to be applauded for his frankness!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>RK:</p>
<p>What evidence is there that this man has internalized homophobia? The comments posted on other sites suggesting that Votto is closeted suggests that the posters are the ones who are homophobic.</p>
<p>Votto stated he is suffering from depression brought on by the death of his father. End of story. I congratulate him for discussing his illness. Mental health issues are still burdened with stigma. As a professional, playing athlete, he is to be applauded for his frankness!</p>
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