MMA fighter: Gay or playing gay on TV?

Nick Ring, a competitor on the current season of “The Ultimate Fighter” is either openly gay or so comfortable with his sexuality that he doesn’t care if everyone else thinks he gay. After all, no other MMA fighter, when asked if he was gay, would answer, “No, but my boyfriend is.” Nor would they have several stereotypical gay mannerisms down pat so well that it looks like it’s them, not an act.

On a webcast extra recapping the latest show, Ring was asked if his strategy is “to make the other guys think you’re light in the loafers?” Ring replies: “They’re calling me gay anyway, I might as well play it up. Whatever.”

“The Ultimate Fighter,” seen on Spike TV on Wednesdays, puts 14 mixed martial artists separated into two teams in a house, living, training and fighting until there is one winner. Ring was the first pick of his captain Tito Ortiz in the current season and quickly the “is he gay?” question has popped up on MMA message boards. Beats me, but Ring, 6-feet-3 and from Canada, certainly appears like he’s gay and addresses the question openly on his blog for the show.

For example, check out this “Late Night Man Massage” clip from a recent episode where Ring gets a 2 a.m. rubdown from a competitor:

Here is how Ring describes the reaction on his blog:

From their bedroom, [Kris] McCray loudly asks me a loaded question that goes a little bit like “Hey Ring, Why would you get a massage from a dude at 3 AM?” I knew exactly where he was trying to go with this one so I thought fuck it – I’ll play, so I answered “because I’m a big queer”.

They started laughing hard in disbelief at my remark, and I walked into their room and leaned my shoulder up against the doorway while I flossed my teeth. I knew that my reply would likely take most of the wind out of their sails but being the couple of Neanderthals they are, they relented by saying that I’m standing gay and tried telling me that I need to change my posture blah blah blah. I just thought it was funny so just poured it on more until they dropped it…

I didn’t realize how funny that would actually look on camera, but I was just kind of doing my thang. Me and my friends always joke around like this and I guess some people aren’t used to that, I got labelled a queer in the house pretty fast due to some of the shit that comes out of my mouth hahaha. I wasn’t really too bothered by it though, I know who I am and my friends back home know me and will just laugh about it anyway.

Fellow fighter Brad Tavares wrote this about Ring on his blog:

Now, if you haven’t figured it out by now, I’m sure Nick’s behavior in the staredown helped you realize that he’s a little bit different. In all honesty, [Jamie] Yager was very homophobic around Nick, and Nick used to chase him around the house in his boxers just to freak him out.

I knew that Ring was a good fighter, and as my roommate, I learned that he was a very intelligent guy. It’s just the role he plays. If you want to call Nick gay, then he’ll act that way, and that’s exactly what he did. In his interview to get in the show, they asked Nick about some of his effeminate mannerisms. He told them, “I’m not gay. My boyfriend is.” That’s just who he is. He has a real dry sense of humor, and he’s going to be himself, and he doesn’t care. He’s a good fighter, and he can back it up.

There was even talk about Ring’s mannerisms as sticks his arm out, wags his finger, shakes his head,  and says  “oh no, you didn’t” prior to a fight on the show. And this was a gesture from the webcast, where he says “Suck it up, buttercup” when asked if the training was too intense:

From his writing, it’s obvious Ring is very bright and aware, and he can handle himself in a fight. So maybe he is gay, or just plays one on TV. What do you think?

Hat tip to Matt Coin

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64 Comments on “MMA fighter: Gay or playing gay on TV?”

  1. #1 sportinlife
    on May 7th, 2010 at 7:21 AM

    Whatever sells… :rolleyes:

    He could get me to watch an episode.

  2. #2 Mike Jones
    on May 7th, 2010 at 9:59 AM

    When a guy is comfortable in his own skin, he may feel empowered to do what he wants and push the envelope. I love it!!!!!!

    He’s not gay……..just trying to win

  3. #3 Tommy
    on May 7th, 2010 at 10:15 AM

    I kinda hope he is, I mean he is a great fighter anyway, and it wouldn’t hurt the gay community to have a few mma fighters out there…

  4. #4 ossurworld
    on May 7th, 2010 at 11:52 AM

    Bon mots where you least expect them…

  5. #5 Craig
    on May 7th, 2010 at 2:24 PM

    I fell in love with Nick when he said “oh, no you didn’t” at the announcements – but the fight should have gone to Court, or at least to a 3rd round.

  6. #6 Joe Guckin
    on May 7th, 2010 at 11:03 PM

    Without watching any of the video, just from reading this, it sounds like he’s playing gay — and acting a bit like a stereotype — just to freak out his opponents on the show.

  7. #7 Ravel
    on May 7th, 2010 at 11:52 PM

    @Craig: I disagree with it going to Court, but there should jave been a 3rd round no question.

  8. #8 CubPaws
    on May 8th, 2010 at 4:50 AM

    I don’t pick up a lot of gay on him (at least not in the embedded video, which is all I’ve seen so far). Still, kudos to him for being so chill about the whole topic.

    (Side note to any and all celestial entities vying for veneration: I will renounce my agnosticism THE INSTANT HE COMES OUT. :D )

  9. #9 baba booey
    on May 8th, 2010 at 1:16 PM

    “He’s not gay……..just trying to win”

    ?

    if this guy is not gay, why is mocking gay people accetable?

  10. #10 baba booey
    on May 8th, 2010 at 1:20 PM

    “I got labelled a queer in the house pretty fast due to some of the shit that comes out of my mouth hahaha. I know who I am and my friends back home know me and will just laugh about it anyway”

    those funny, freaky faggots. always a riot.

  11. #11 DruggyBear
    on May 8th, 2010 at 2:28 PM

    he’s gay for play.

    then again MMA is pretty gay itself, so who knows.

  12. #12 Climber30
    on May 8th, 2010 at 6:14 PM

    He definitely is comfortable and secure enough not to care to be called gay. Imagine, if that was the attitude of everyone then being gay would be as accepted as having blue eyes. Good for Nick Ring, I liked him from the beginning as a fighter and now I respect him as a person.

  13. #13 DJ
    on May 8th, 2010 at 6:48 PM

    I don’t think he’s mocking gays. He’s just comfortable with himself.

    But man if he were gay…

  14. #14 Jake Jackson
    on May 9th, 2010 at 11:34 AM

    Not gay. Playing it for laughs.

  15. #15 Kyle
    on May 9th, 2010 at 2:25 PM

    Not gay, huh? So a straight guy making fun of gay people, or “queers”. That’s really funny and very original.

    If he’s not gay, then any chance he might put on black-face and “act-black”? Or maybe “act-Jewy”? I mean, I think “acting-gay”, whatever that means, is playing it safe, if he were a real man, I really tough like he says he is, he’ll keep his hate and shock even and not just “act-gay” because that’s what the easy thing to do becuase the world hates gay people. Hopefully he’ll man up and when somebody asks him if he’s Jewish and then he’ll act all “Jewy” in one episode and put on a big Jewy schnoz asking why he’s not paid the most out of all the fighters, and take control of the video cameras and say, “Look, I’m controlling the media! I’m a Jew! Look at me!” I mean that’s funny! That’s really “bright”.

    You think the network will go for that though? Nah, probably kicked off the show. You think he’d still fight, or would be banned from that too?

    But as far as his “gay impression”

    Hated it!

  16. #16 baba booey
    on May 9th, 2010 at 2:59 PM

    ” I respect him as a person.”

    yeah he’s pretty integral, isn’t he.

    “He’s just comfortable with himself.”

    gay bashing brings comfort to most, i agree.

    “he’ll act all “Jewy” in one episode and put on a big Jewy schnoz asking why he’s not paid the most out of all the fighters, and take control of the video cameras and say, “Look, I’m controlling the media! I’m a Jew! Look at me!” I mean that’s funny!”

    lol, i think that would be hilarious. you should be his comedy writer. very clever. but he’d be boycotted.

    there is a huge market for gay bashing and people know this either in politics, religion, or entertainment. gay people are viewed as clowns and jokes…i mean just look at the media. look at any television show/ movie…”paging dr. faggot.”

    ps kyle, before somebody tells you, might i remind you to not equate your sin with my skin. ;)

  17. #17 Kyle
    on May 9th, 2010 at 3:41 PM

    How’s this…I just worked on it. I’ll be his comedy writer.

    “Are you little light in the loafers?”, like that asshole reporter asked him, he’ll ask this time, “Are you a Christ-killer?” and then I’ll have him reply, “I didn’t kill Christ, but my schnoz sure did, look at this thing! It would kill anybody! Oh!!!”

    That’s comedy.

  18. #18 ?
    on May 9th, 2010 at 5:01 PM

    He’s a great person. Research him out a little before you pass judgement. No girlfriend(s), don’t be so harsh. Use common sense. He is very proud of who he is. He’s not making fun, he is extremely kind. There are gay MMA fighters, I know first hand. They are closeted, but out to close friends. He is very funny, and throws people’s hate back in their face. It’s hard for him to hide who he is, and he’s proud of that, believe me. He’s great person.

  19. #19 Jim Buzinski
    on May 9th, 2010 at 5:07 PM

    @? “It’s hard for him to hide who he is, and he’s proud of that, believe me. He’s great person.”

    He sounds like a cool guy. Maybe I’m dense but that still doesn’t answer the question: Is he gay?

  20. #20 Lucrece
    on May 9th, 2010 at 6:58 PM

    Eh, he doesn’t ring gay to me.

    He’s not making fun of gay people either, so chill on the comments.

    What he’s doing is satirizing the homophobes’ reactions. He’s giving them what they’re looking for, and slapping it on their faces, with a “so what” attitude. The homophobia from those guys was defanged when he refused to relent into their corrections.

    You have to realize, their comments were trying to injure him and make him change his behavior. Instead, he revved it up in a way that sent a big “fuck you, I’m gonna do what I want” at them.

    Which is nice, he’s not a conformist. He’s not gonna let a bunch of douches dictate to him what is masculine and what is not, and how he should act.

  21. #21 Davey
    on May 9th, 2010 at 9:25 PM

    I didn’t take his comments or actions as homophobic or offensive at all. If he is gay, great. If he’s not, stop being so sensitive. Apparently he thought there was a homophobic vibe going around so as someone pointed out, he just “gayed” it up a little. Look, I’m black. Do I get offended when someone says some of their best friends are black, or they assume because I’m black I can dance, or that I play basketball, or instead of coming up to me and saying hello they say wassup? No. If I stopped and whined everytime someone did something that offended me I would have very little free time during my day. Please point out exactly what he did or said that was so horrible, because I must have missed it.

  22. #22 Cam
    on May 10th, 2010 at 4:31 AM

    Who fucking cares? I wouldn’t throw him out of bed one way or another.

  23. #23 ossurworld
    on May 10th, 2010 at 6:15 PM

    Half the gays in the world ridicule the other half for being too gay.

  24. #24 Martin
    on May 11th, 2010 at 12:39 PM

    Who? What? Who cares….. Are people still surprised that men in hyper masculine sports or professions are gay? I’m surprised when they are NOT gay. I’ve dated enough of these dudes to figure out that those who want to dispell the gay stereotypes usually head for the more “macho” jobs, like police, military, firefighters….. An insider once told me that when ever the Pentagon sends the Marines into battle, half the Pentagon officials are in tears worried about their boyfriends. No kidding!

  25. #25 Steve
    on May 11th, 2010 at 12:42 PM

    @ ossurworld, you’re right. Gay men don’t even like the word “gay”. That’s why websites like seancody and corbinfisher in which “straight” men fuck other men are so popular. I have heard on many, many occasions gay men claim that “gay men are not hot or masculine, only “straight” men are”.

    As far the “acceptable part” to the other posters, no it’s not. Straight men, which this guy is, “acting gay” for laughs is not funny. But, you will not get a lot of anger from gay men because gay men don’t care, especially if the guy is “hot” which is evident by posts on this web site and others. It ruins the fantasy they have. They don’t care about respect or dignity, they care about sucking and fucking. That’s it. Gay men like the lacrosse captain featured in in the New York Times is a very small percentile of gay men who actually DO care about the place of gay men society. They do exist though, I am one of them. The rest do not care at all and if anything, they “normalize” and “butch it up” to appear not gay to the rest of the world.

  26. #26 Steve
    on May 11th, 2010 at 12:44 PM

    “Who? What? Who cares….. ”

    I rest my case.

  27. #27 baba booey
    on May 11th, 2010 at 12:52 PM

    steve nailed it.

    gay = feminine/undesirable; straight = masculine/desirable.

    thought i was the only humorless queen out there.

    and, martin, you’ve “dated enough dudes”? typical.

  28. #28 baba booey
    on May 11th, 2010 at 12:55 PM

    and those guys aren’t straight on seancody and corbinfisher. the web site markets them as straight because gay men only find straight men appealing. straight men don’t eff men. gay men who claim to be “straight” do. if you think otherwise, you’re delusional.

  29. #29 Billyboi
    on May 11th, 2010 at 1:31 PM

    I only find straight men appealing. I wonder why? could it be they are kinder, more laidback, and even more flirty and romantic? Gay guys suck. They are rude, hostile, nasty, immoral, decadent, angry, bitter. And they wouldn’t know romance if it bit themon their steroided out asses. I can’t take it anymore. Between the emotional issues and drugs, gay guys are like poison. I only date straight guys. They seem to like me too. I haven’t met a straight guy who didn’t think I was adorable and didn’t want to tickle my nose.

  30. #30 ger
    on May 11th, 2010 at 2:51 PM

    @Billyboi Normally I’d think you’re crazy, but then I read some of the comments. Apparently there are a number of “rude, hostile, nasty” gays around.

    I live in Vancouver, and this MMA dude is exactly like a lot of my straight friends (except they’re not quite as hot, but don’t tell them that). Always joking around, pushing the envelope a bit, but always have my back. Then they go home with some lucky chick.

  31. #31 DruggyBear
    on May 11th, 2010 at 3:50 PM

    “I only date straight guys.”

    if they are dating a guy then how are they straight exactly? I’ve had friends who were straight until the lights went out and never would they even consider anything like a “date” with a guy.

  32. #32 Dnesh D.
    on May 11th, 2010 at 4:02 PM

    Why does everyone use labels like “gay” and “straight”?? Most people are somewhere in between. Some guys might be mildly curious, and some might even find themselves attracted to another guy. Maybe it’ll be a once in a lifetime thing, maybe not. People are not insects that can be so readily categorized. I know gay guys that after a few drinks have sex with their fag hag girlfriends. I’m sure there are “straight” guys who do the same thing with their dude friends. Get over it.
    Oh, and btw, to all the canadians who constantly post anti-American shit on here, you are really obnoxious. Canada does not have the corner market on tolerance. some of the most tolerant people I’ve ever met come from Texas, and some of the most uptight from canada. And canada’s has enough serial killers stalking gays right now to prove that. So SHUT UP up north. You are really annoying!!!!

  33. #33 Karen
    on May 11th, 2010 at 6:40 PM

    Dnesh,
    Ditto. I couldn’t have what you said any better.

  34. #34 Robert
    on May 12th, 2010 at 9:20 AM

    I have to politely say some people are missing the point. If you review Nick Ring’s words you will see that he referred to his homophobic antagonists as neanderthals. With that being said, it can be inferred that this guy takes issue with people whom are intolerant of sexual minorities. Nick’s over the top antics are clearly designed to push people whom hold such bigoted views well outside their comfort zone.

    On another note, I am not sure whether I’m rooting for Nick Ring to be gay or straight. It certainly would be awesome to have an openly gay player in the hyper-masculine world of mixed martial arts. This would certainly open doors and conquer boundaries. At the same time, a straight man in the public limelight whom is willing to wear the label “gay” instead of becoming defensive is also inspiring. After all, too many people including celebrities feel the need to climb the highest mountain and loudly proclaim their heterosexuality in the face of gay rumors. Whether intended or not, such actions send a message that being gay is not normal. However, if everyone took the opposite approach the stigma surrounding the word “gay” would disappear.

    Finally, we can speculate all day about Nick Ring’s sexual orientation but at the end of the day even the most carefully orchestrated arguments are nothing more than mere speculation. Consequently, we should wait and see if he comes out of the closet or speaks about a desire to settle down with a woman. Regardless, this guy has rubbed me the right way and will continue to have my support.

  35. #35 ?
    on May 12th, 2010 at 12:35 PM

    Don’t listen to Spike.

  36. #36 ??
    on May 12th, 2010 at 8:29 PM

    I have known Nick for years…he is a friend of mine and we used to date. He is definitely not gay. He is just confident and comfortable with who he is.

  37. #37 Joe Guckin
    on May 13th, 2010 at 12:17 AM

    AfterElton.com linked to this post, and then followed up later. See first item in this article: http://www.afterelton.com/blog/edkennedy/afterelton-briefs-051010

    “Clarifying the mention of contestant Nick Ring on Spike TV’s The Ultimate Fighter in today’s Afternoon Meme, we reached out to Spike TV who told us that Nick is indeed straight.”

  38. #38 kyle
    on May 13th, 2010 at 1:22 PM

    “I have known Nick for years…he is a friend of mine and we used to date. He is definitely not gay. He is just confident and comfortable with who he is.”

    Enough.

  39. #39 DruggyBear
    on May 13th, 2010 at 5:46 PM

    regarding this guy’s sexuality all u had to do was check w/ Spike TV like AfterElton did, Jim. I know u are (hopefully) busy on the Mikeygate expose but doing a little research here would have gone a long way…..

  40. #40 Robert
    on May 14th, 2010 at 9:13 AM

    DruggyBear:

    I still remain unconvinced either way and will remain so until Nick Ring personally clarifies the matter at hand. After all, he is a big boy and can speak for himself.

    On another note, I have “officially” decided it would be great if this guy truly is straight. As I said in an earlier post, a straight male celebrity’s willingness to wear a “gay” label without becoming defensive could teach acceptance.

  41. #41 Vaughn
    on May 15th, 2010 at 7:19 AM

    100 bucks says Nick Ring is gay.

  42. #42 Anonymous
    on May 15th, 2010 at 12:16 PM

    “On another note, I have “officially” decided it would be great if this guy truly is straight. As I said in an earlier post, a straight male celebrity’s willingness to wear a “gay” label without becoming defensive could teach acceptance.”

    MARY!

  43. #43 Anonymous
    on May 15th, 2010 at 2:12 PM

    “I haven’t met a straight guy who didn’t think I was adorable and didn’t want to tickle my nose.”

    Oh, dear.

  44. #44 Anonymous
    on May 15th, 2010 at 2:16 PM

    The haus frau at comment #34 needs to be contained.

  45. #45 TJ
    on May 15th, 2010 at 5:44 PM

    Hey…what do we stereotype ourselves?

    “Nor would they have several stereotypical gay mannerisms down pat so well that it looks like it’s them, not an act”.

    I happen to love men and consider myself gay but I didn’t know there were mannerisms that identify one as gay….the only one I can relate to is loving and having sex with another man…

  46. #46 Mark
    on May 16th, 2010 at 7:21 PM

    Gay or not, Nick Ring is a funny, likable person.

  47. #47 DaReal Gingerbreadman
    on May 16th, 2010 at 8:07 PM

    yo this is NOT funny. MMA is one of the few sports that actually likes to have is both ways. I watch with a straight buddy and this stuff plays to a huge gay following (What’s not 2 like?) And and at the same time UFC/MMA fuels gay bashing mentality with guys beating the spit out of each other to a bloody pulp. How safe is THAT!!?? P.S.- I’ve yet to see the majority of fighter’s corners wearing protective gloves. Hello?

  48. #48 Anonymous
    on May 17th, 2010 at 11:38 AM

    “I only date straight guys.”

    Oh, dear.

  49. #49 DruggyBear
    on May 17th, 2010 at 2:21 PM

    “I didn’t know there were mannerisms that identify one as gay”

    oh come on, let’s not go overboard here

    “I only date straight guys.”

    a gay man can not utter a stupider line!

  50. #50 Mark
    on May 17th, 2010 at 11:18 PM

    Those blasted homophobes in the MMA deserve the exposure and banter to whatever makes them feel uncomfortable. The more they are challenged in their insecurities the better, and all I can express is “bully” to Nick Ring. Years ago, I heard that if an elite athlete ever came out in a professional sport, he would put up with the same stress as Jackie Robinson. From what I understand, the stress Jackie Robinson endured was one of the factors the shortened his life. A gay athlete in a very homophobic atmosphere will need to endurance of Jackie Robinson, and the boldness of a Nick Ring. Gay or not, “bully” for Nick Ring.

  51. #51 Datalounger
    on May 18th, 2010 at 11:56 AM

    @ #49, (I wish you could highlight comments)

    Gay men who claim such things are delsusional and self-loathing. I am 22, and I have never heard anybody in my age group claim they date straight guys. It only appears to be an older gay male thing. Datalounge is loaded with old queens who claim that stupid line. Jake Cruise type creepy guys. But, then you have many who flame them and laugh at their self-hating delusions and desperations. That’s a great web site for sports gossip, btw. Legitimate rumors.

  52. #52 Martin
    on May 19th, 2010 at 11:49 AM

    Hi,
    I know Nick from Calgary, but I’ve never known if he was gay or not and never asked. His camp manner isn’t exagerated at all in the program, he’s like that in real life, so I don’t think he’s putting anything on, just being himself as he always is. More than anything the thing that stands out about Nick is his decency, kindness, non conformity, strong personality and sense of humour and fun, so it shouldn’t really matter if he’s gay or not. In fact, whether he is or he isn’t, he stands out as such a good, distinctive human being, it can only be great for MMA.
    Thanks,
    Martin

  53. #53 katy
    on May 19th, 2010 at 11:17 PM

    Nick is gay, for sure, and I think its great. What difference does it make either way? No one is asking Yeager whether he has sex with boys or girls.

    The author of “ps kyle, before somebody tells you, might i remind you to not equate your sin with my skin” just provided proof of their ignorance.

  54. #54 Beetlejuice
    on May 21st, 2010 at 2:06 PM

    I love him.

  55. #55 Beetlejuice
    on May 21st, 2010 at 2:09 PM

    Other Howard Stern fans are here? Haha. Baba Booey!!!

  56. #56 Mike
    on May 23rd, 2010 at 11:06 AM

    My read on him (from watching the show) is he’s not gay, but has some “gay” mannerisums, tons of straight gay do. It’s like he’s saying “you want to try and put me down by calling me gay, well I’ll show you gay”. Soem people could really learn a lesson from him.

  57. #57 Kyle
    on May 23rd, 2010 at 1:08 PM

    “Soem people could really learn a lesson from him.”

    rather “real” gay men already don’t do this?

    ps. none of you will ever suck his cock. ever. (myself included).

  58. #58 LaughingAtYou
    on Jul 5th, 2010 at 10:21 PM

    The homo quit anyway.

  59. #59 seth
    on Jul 29th, 2010 at 1:25 PM

    I think its just wishful thinking among some gay guys. No Nick is not gay, he’s just really silly and plays the head games like so many guys in this sport do.

    People think MMA is just all about 2 guys beating the crap out of each other.. No you can’t go in there like a barbarian or you get knocked down, and there is a huge mental aspect of the sport as well. If he makes anyone uncomfortable or even angry thinking he is gay, he’d totally mess their whole game plan up in a fight which would in the end allow him victory.

    I don’t doubt for a second that there are gay guys in the sport of MMA. However men in this sport, gay or straight share a same kind of mentality. Its a warrior mentality since this sport is very warrior culture driven, and if you don’t have that mentality, then don’t bother getting into this sport because you won’t make it at all. On top of that, gay men who are into this sport because of that whole warrior mentality, and love for fighting…. They aren’t too fond of gay culture, or care much for the gay community, so they keep away from it..

    They may remain quiet about their sexuality like someone in the military, or any other sport.. Though they don’t hate themselves, they don’t feel apart of what many think the gay world to be.

    Any guy in this sport who was gay, sure as hell would not be acting, or sounding in any kind of stereotypical ways, as Nick was doing on the show… Just to be funny, and mess with the heads of the other guys who probably are pretty damn ignorant about gays thinking you have to be or act a certain way if you are.

  60. #60 David
    on Aug 30th, 2010 at 10:04 PM

    I personally know and have slept with a UFC fighter. He has a smokin’ hot girlfriend. We had quite a hot relationship while I lived in Los Angeles. I still play with this man when Im in town. No I will never reveal who he is.

  61. #61 fact
    on Sep 3rd, 2010 at 7:25 PM

    Roger Huerta.

    Name ring in hand-y?

    Well, let me tell you…. his “secret” is not that big of a secret, actually.

    You’d be surprised by the majority of people being relaxed with and around him.

    And yeah.. he’s a very good boy ;)

    This my first and only post in this website…
    Have a nice one, y’all.

  62. #62 Hector
    on Oct 17th, 2010 at 11:38 PM

    I cannot believe that people can be so morons. Who gives a damm what a guy or a female does or has done or will do in bed be right or right. Why can people mind their business in regards to other persons be right or wrong sexual practices or ex practices or future practices. Unless you are wondering about a person spiritual condition in regards to eternal life it should be none of your business about that person. Some dudes are just plain non mature and in reality more are the so called freaks running their mouth all the time about the so called same sex people than those whom are in keep it quiet. I learned a lesson with some military comrad whom would go to our military base gym and recreation center or Martial Arts training to make fun about the so called gays. I sure learned the lesson with Mr: Manning the masculine macho all the time talking about the women and all their body parts and how much would he do to that and the other one in bed. Well one sunday morning after spending the night at a club and driving back to the base from downtown. I saw Macho Manning with Norman kissing in front of the YMCA and holding hands. They had gotten a room together at the YMCA and inserted the hole of their butts with each others penis in accordance to Manning whom was put on the stop by me at the recreation center following my sight of him and Norman and duiring another one of those times where Manning would undress a female in front of us guiys and say one of his anti gay jokes. Following me placing him on the spot in front of the other guys. He opened up and told that it was just a show to look and feel cool with the other guys. Talking about massive mental illness. That was Manning. Therefore to me when dudes get together and usually there are the clowns making and bashing so called homosexuals. I take heed that perhaps those talking all that trash are probably the real homosexuals even more than those they are talking about and also think in the following way. If I cannot take the speck of my eye before GOD about everything that is wrong in me about life and self etc. Then why be a dammed fool and trash other human beings regardless of what they do and whom they are period. Here is another one. Some dudes are always in their hatred against the so called homos because some of the homos penetrate each others on the butt and also so as women with artificial penises and talk trash about them and call them dirty and stuff like that etc. The point here is that such dudes have no problems sticking it on a female butt or having females stick some foreign object on their butt and call themselves manly. Here is another point. If you hate your fellow male so much then whey do you even smile with your buddy or talk to him and look for him and after him? Why not quit talking and spending time about anything with other dudes including talking about the opposite sex? The point here is as follows – Threat people better than with the mind of a roach. That so called homosexual you are talking about in or out of Martial Arts could be the one whom can give you mouth to mouth resucitation while all the other people just pass you around. Who knows. To whom it may concern. This is not so people can think that I endorse the homosexual lifestyle. I think is as wrong as heterosexual sexual activity that was not ordained by the creator himself. I think that is Adam and Eve and not Adam and Steve but also know that man is twsted regardsless of the sin.

  63. #63 dadvocate
    on Dec 24th, 2011 at 4:51 PM

    Who cares if he is gay, bi, straight, whatever? I never understand why people want to know, or need to know what someone’s sexuality is, and why it would make a difference to them anyway. A friend thought I’d be interested in this story just because I watch UFC, wtf? LOL

  64. #64 rod88
    on Jan 25th, 2012 at 2:13 AM

    if he’s got no problem people thinking he is gay, he cant think its all that bad a thing being gay…making him not homophobic.

    gay guys looking for any excuse to cry homophobe need to chill.

    im gay, like ufc and think this guys is great

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